health π Why 20s friends fade as we hit 30s
The author reflects on how close friendships from the 20s often dissipate as people enter their 30s. This fading is due to various factors including time, illness, geographic distance, and irreconcilable disagreements. The author realizes that relationships often end when people no longer share the same stretch of time together. Ultimately, they conclude that friendship is a shared present, not something meant to be permanent. This realization shifts the focus from permanence to the quality of the connection itself. π